Saturday, July 21, 2012

the end of something. the beginning of another.

stroopwaffle and coffee break with morrison's (dutch treat complements of tricia)

tricia cooking in the kitchen.

the kiddos reading narnia.

just walk down the road a bit, turn right, and you see the beach!

walk straight. turn left. walk a bit. and you're at our house!

there it is.

one of my last views of africa. :/

ahh. tea in amsterdam.

yes. i did visit all three.

amsterdam. maybe starbucks IS everywhere!

bite size and full of yum!

hello home.

first walmart visit in six months.

tanzanian chai. american fruit. :)

mom's first stroopwaffle.

dad's.

gabby's.

first starbucks visit in six months! (i didn't actually go to the one in amsterdam :)

for me and tessa.

mama and baby.

malcolm israel olson.


makings of dad's sunday morning eggs. on a wednesday.

me and charae in our tanzanian sandals.


yes, we do order food and drink. from two different places!


the little white things in the grass AREN'T snow!


hail or ice cubes?!

summer. really?

our deck.

me after running to get my camera in the CRV. (i had to hide out in it for a little while :)

it has great potential!

9000 miles.


Dearest bloggers,
I am terribly sorry that it’s taken so long for me to write! I have news: I’m back. Safe and in one whole piece! Can you believe it? Even after 20 hours stuck on two different planes traveling thousands of miles across and over sea and land. Even after getting a cumulative of about three hours of sleep in about 48 hours. And yes, even after the rude lady at the airport told a tearful and hugging mama and me we were in the way.
The latest addition to my life as of Thursday is an iPhone. And earlier whilst I was to be lounging on my parents great new deck writing my blog, I’m instead lounging and texting on my phone! Talk about distraction. And the funny thing is, I was mostly texting my mom, who was in the house. What happened to the good old days when you actually spoke face to face?!
Have no fear, we’ve done a lot of that too. We even went on a shopping lunch date Thursday. And while on the date, I learned something very valuable and worth knowing: iPhone’s are cheaper at Wal*Mart. I started at the AT&T store. Their iPhone 4’s are a hundred bucks. Ok, fine. That’s fair. Then I went to Wally World. Theirs are $88. Yes please! As the guy was ringing up my total including the cover and screen protectors, it came to just under 80 bucks. I found myself quite confused! When I asked, he said the phone was $48. Yahoo and double yes please!
I’ve been home just over a week now and Africa seems thousands of miles away – because it is. And the fact that a week and a half ago I was breathing African air, hugging my Morrisons goodbye, and boarding an airplane bound for Amsterdam is almost beyond my comprehension.
I did enjoy my last week there and found myself quite spoiled. We went to dinner at a most lovely Italian restaurant on Friday night and had the best pizza and cheesy pasta which I shared with Tricia. To top it off we tried the tiramisu. We had had high hopes for it, but in the end, Avery deemed it terrible-misu and we had ice cream.
At dinner they each sweetly shared – or so I thought – something they would remember about me. And as each shared their story, it became a little less sweet and a lot more funny. Tricia’s was when I nearly got attacked by a baboon at Victoria Falls. DJ’s, when I opened my mouth and inserted my foot about boys after dinner at camp one night. Avery had a love for scaring me and will always remember that. Garrett has fond memories of the wimp I was climbing the giant mountain in a skirt the week of our home stay. We ended up laughing a lot and it occurred to me that all of their favorite memories of me were when I was at my weakest. Well, at least somebody can enjoy my weak moments!
On Tuesday I had some sad moments when I almost couldn’t fit all my stuff in my suitcases. DJ came to my rescue! He packed them up after I unpacked them. And I only had to leave a couple things for Amy Ellis’s mom to bring home and ship to me when she comes home in August. Next we had to cram ourselves into a taxi to drive across the city to the airport. I took in some of my last African sights and sounds.
That morning I had been praying because I really wanted to take a bug home to my Uncle David who gave me a really bad time about bugs in Africa before I left. I walked into the bathroom and bam! There was a praying mantis on the inside of the bathroom screen. A bit later Avery found one in the cupboard too. I was torn: praying mantis’ are my favorite bug. I didn’t really want to kill one. On the other hand, it would be kinder to give my uncle a nice bug that I like rather than a gross ugly one. In the end, the nice bug theory won and I had Garrett capture the praying mantis in a Ziploc bag. As we rode to the airport Avery asks, “Naphtali, did you get your bug?” “Oh, no! I forgot it. That means I suffocated one for no reason!” I was sad.
The Morrison’s had sent me with some thank yous’ to mail to friends. Once home, I got them out so I could mail them. They were in a Ziploc. And there he was, the sweet little praying mantis, smooshed, flat, his guts obvious on the envelope. He was stuck to one of the thank you’s. Whoever put the thank yous’ in my suitcase had seen the praying mantis’ bag and thought it was free game. Ha! Well, at least I didn’t have to declare the bug on my customs form. J
I managed to say goodbye to the Morrison’s without tears. I had also put ten dollars into my wallet before I left. Thank goodness I did. They’d raised the airport tax by ten dollars! We didn’t have a scale to weigh my bags, so as I waited to check my bag, I prayed fervently. The weight limit was 23 kilos (50lbs). I hefted my bag onto the scale: 28 kilos. The girl looked at it, said ok, and moments later I was on my way to get stamped out of the country. Thank you, Jesus!
The first flight had a lot of turbulence. It made me feel a tad ill and not very thrilled for my next flight. But survived I did, enjoyed Amsterdam and became even more grateful for the moving floors when I was rushing to my gate to not miss my flight. I felt interrogated when the guy started asking me questions about my bags. And then I had to stand in this strange machine with my hands raised. I guess I did it wrong because I had to do it twice!
Once on the plane I felt a certain amount of excitement that most of the people on it actually knew places in the US that I knew. I sat beside this sweet motherly lady from Seattle. And during the whole flight it was light out outside. So strange flying over nine time zones! I saw Iceland or Greenland I think.
Stepping onto American carpet and on to immigration felt quite nice. I even felt a bit cocky. Like, this is my home. I live here. I’m no longer a foreigner. My passport is for this country! The hardest part was waiting for my bag. I hoped against hope that it wasn’t still in Africa. I consoled myself with the fact that lots of other people were still waiting for their bags too. After it arrived, I smoothly made it through the little customs checkpoint and on to getting to my family. You could put your big bag onto a conveyer belt to be picked up at a later point. I opted for this because I figured, why not let my daddy get it? Hehe, that’s one of the nice things about having your parents get you!
I saw Mama and Gramma as I was about to come up the escalator. Mama met me at the top and we both lost it. Tears and hugs and then the unthoughtful lady saying, “You need to move. People can’t get by you.” She said this as she walked past us. And then I ran over Gram’s toe with my carryon. Oops! What a homecoming! We drove to Panera Bread. I gave hi’s and hello’s to some of my dear friends and family. I got my diploma finally. Then we were off to Ellensburg and my family there. I was running on something until about seven that night and then I crashed.
One of my girlfriend’s came to visit that night and I quite enjoyed catching up with her. Except that every once in a bit I would start to fall asleep while we chatted. Then, when we were outside, I almost fell over. It’s a good thing I was leaning against my parents’ car. There’s tired and then there’s falling over tired. I was the latter in case you hadn’t picked up on that J
After about 36 hours I found myself wishing to not really see anyone, which stinks and makes one feel like a terrible person. I knew there would be a transition time, but not like this. I’m so thankful for my pastor’s wife. She’s traveled before and when I explained things to her, she let me know that it’s ok! I find that it’s easy to give others grace. But myself? No thank you. I’m not very good at it. But as time went on, the desire came about and I’ve had some amazing visits and times with friends that are almost like I haven’t been gone for six months!
One of the most rewarding parts of being gone, once the desire comes back to see people, is the great reunions you have upon your return. I got to meet my new little nephew, Malcolm Israel Olson, on Monday. Right about the instant I saw the tiny little guy perch in his Mama’s (Tessa) arms I fell in love. I smiled and giggled over him most of the time that I was with him and his mama. I fought between love and fear. Holding babies is so scary. What if they break? But every snuggle I had with him was incredibly precious. I had a pleasant day with him and Tessa and his daddy when he got home.
I spent Wednesday with Charae. We met at a coffee shop and I enjoyed my second cup of stateside coffee: – my first being Starbucks for me and Tessa (and eventually Malcolm) on Monday – an icy caramel treat that left me unfortunately disappointed. If you’re gonna give me half ice and half coffee, at least charge me half price!
Charae and I chatted, consignment shop browsed, lunched, and then sat in the green grass of the park for hours. While chatting at the park, we had the interesting opportunity to talk with some Mormon missionary boys. I was so convicted and inspired by Charae’s bold sharing of her love for our Jesus. After they left, we spent some time praying for them. So when you think of it, pray for them too and that the passionate seeds Charae planted will take root and grow in their hearts and minds!
One of my favorite new spots since being home is our new deck. We eat on it. Read on it. One night we watched Blue Bloods on it. My cousin Gabby and I even worked out on it one day! We’ve also been graced with many thunder and rainstorms. Yesterday we even had giant hail. I love it! It’s so good to be home! J
Thank you Jesus for…
!          My awesome Morrison family
!          Good airplane food
!          That life is better than the movies you watch on airplanes
!          Safety over the miles
!          Sweet reunions
!          Meeting my precious new nephew
!          Tea
!          A new toy
!          Answered prayer
!          Being able to text all I want
!          Next week’s vacation at the beach with my wonderful family
Thanks so very much for being my faithful readers and for all your thoughts, comments, and prayers. I do plan to keep on blogging when I can. I’m going to change the name, however, since I’m no longer in the heart of Africa. J Stay tuned friends!
Much love,
Naphtali Kate

Wednesday, July 4, 2012

writing in the sand.

dinner with mark and laura.
red bull's next model...




i forgot to mention this in my blog! the author of charlie and the chocolate factory lived in dar and got his inspiration  for the chocolate factory from this concrete factory. crazy, right? who knew!?

you know those photos that just show the sheer and simple pleasure of little kids? :)

rob.. you have something on your back.




this guy was on a mission. to somewhere.

our sea walk back to shore after the island.


you can't see it real well, but that's tom and linda in the sand :)

the finale.


     “And my God will supply every nee of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:19
     Five days. Until I pack my suitcases. Until – possibly tearfully – I give goodbye hugs to my sweet Morrisons. Until I set foot on a plane bound for Amsterdam and attempt to stay awake for ten hours so that I hopefully adjust to the ten hour time difference between Africa and home easier. Six days. Until I set foot on another plane after almost being in Europe and attempt to sleep to help myself adjust to the time difference. Until I, Lord willing, make it through customs with all my goodies from Africa. Until I fall into the arms of the people dearest to me who I haven’t seen in six months.
     It’s a good thing my time here is almost complete. My hard drive is filled UP. Seriously, I have about ten gigabytes of free space left. That’s what I get for taking so many stinking pictures! But, I regret it not one bit. This may be my one and only time in Africa. Since they say a picture is worth a thousand words, then I guess I have thousands upon THOUSANDS of words about Africa. Yes!!! My trip shall live on in my memory, not to mention my photo albums. J
     Tricia boarded a plane bound for Turkey and then Holland last week. She had a lovely and busy time with her friends and saw them successfully married. And since she was gone, it was up to me to be the cook. So, I donned my apron and went to work. And you know what? Nobody died or got really ill (that I know of!). I discovered that for all laziness in cooking the past 21 years, I can do alright. Avy was my little helper too J
     Last Tuesday, the day dawned bright and stayed that way. About ten in the morning, I climbed onto a boat bound for an island with the Ellises and their friends. The boat was small, covered, and wooden with a motor. As I disembarked from the boat, the tide came rushing in, stealing away my sandal. I feared it gone forever. But a moment later it appeared just a bit away from the boat. I scurried after it and caught it just in time. That was a close one!
     The island was secluded and covered with these cute wispy baby pine trees that shed needles and little pinecones. We made ourselves at home in a little covered banda, played on the beach, and soaked up the sun. I got to work on my tan. Read my book. Enjoy taking pictures of the gorgeous day. The other family we were with had three kids, two boys and a girl. The little girl, Julia, was four and a sweet social butterfly. We became fast friends even before we left for the island. She asked me to play in the water with her, and we even dug sand holes. For lunch we indulged in fish caught fresh that day and chips. What deliciousness. I ate the whole fish!
     Due to the small size of the island, I’m not sure if there were public toilets or not. Our toilet was someone holding a grass mat and then you squatting in the sand underneath the pines. Good thing sand is absorbent!
     I have a confession: I am a sucker. For shells. And this island was like the supermall of all places to find them. I limited myself to just a few. But I didn’t ‘limit’ myself as much in January in Mozambique. So, I’m bringing home lots of shells from the Indian Ocean! They’re so beautiful and unique. The ones I found Tuesday are no exception. Browns and a yellow one and some coral too. There was a girl visiting the island who had found a baby hermit crab about the size of my pinky fingernail. It was the cutest thing. I got to hold it!
     When we came back from the island, the tide was out. The boat stopped and we were surprised to find out we were to walk. At least a couple hundred feet through knee-deep water to shore. Caleb, the one family’s nine year old boy, and I held hands and kept each other up. And it was a good thing I had shorts on under my dress or it would have been a sight to see for everyone who cared to look because up my dress came as I trudged through the sea!
     Wednesday was my Gramma and Grampa Foster ‘s(Bibi and Babu in Kiswahili J) 6oth wedding anniversary. Crazy to think that they’ve been married almost three times as long as I’ve been alive! That was also the day Garrett and I celebrated our birthdays. Our days aren’t until the 1st and 3rd of September, but since we’ll be 9,000 miles apart on those days, we had our party early. We drank Red Bulls and played Ticket to Ride: Europe. And you know what? Garrett beat me. By 14 points. And he’s turning 14! I had a blast playing with him, even if he did beat me!
     We enjoyed a few relaxing days over the weekend with our friends from language school, Mark and Laura. We had girls’ nights with popcorn and movies, the boys played rousing games of Risk, and Laura was great help in the kitchen. Us girls even made it to the Slipway, a huge tourist trap chock full of booths with all sorts of African goods. I spent money and got bargains.
     At Slipway, I bought things from an Indian man in a silver store. He was kind and I got things for a bit less than the original price. But, in the process of talking to him, I asked if he had ever been to the U.S. He said he hadn’t because he’s in his store seven days a week. “I have a thirst for money,” he told me. And it made me so sad that that’s what seems to drive him, that’s what he lives for. If you think of him, pray that he discovers that there’s something More to life!
     Monday, the kids and I were cooped up in the house most of the day. When DJ got home, he suggested a walk. Despite pleas from an 11 year old and a 13 year old, we went. We walked to the beach and went for a stroll. It wasn’t long enough (is it ever when you’re on the beach?). As I walk beside the water, I find peace and calm unlike any other. I don’t need to talk, and I can just think and talk to my Jesus. When we were off the beach, we headed down the road and straight to the ice cream man. DJ treated us all to ice cream. My ice cream bar was almost as good as Haugen Dauz. J
     DJ picked Tricia up from the airport in the middle of the night, and Tuesday morning was like Christmas, the goodie version. She’d brought the treasured Dutch treat that I can’t spell: two waffles smooshed together with caramel in the middle, Turkish delight, and chocolate. She sweetly brought me the cutest scarf from Turkey. After she showed it to me, she looked at the tag: made in China. Ha! Poor thing, she was so bummed. But no worries, I still love it!
     I think since I’ve been in Africa, I’ve seen Tricia every day. And when she left for Holland, I didn’t think it was that strange. But, when I saw her Tuesday morning, it was the weirdest thing.  After not seeing her for a week, to see her pretty face again took a second to adjust to. But it was a good adjustment! Mamas’ hold down the fort and bring a security that no one else really can. So, our house is back to its normal self now, whatever that is J
     Someone from Brazil gave Tricia perfume. When Avery let me smell it, I commented how nice it was. “I have a lotion for you,” Tricia told me. The lady gave her a lotion with the perfume, and she saved it, for me. Who does that? Tricia is one of the most amazing and thoughtful people I know. She’s very inspiring. It’s almost as if just being around her makes you a better person!
     God has been teaching me about giving these past months, especially as I go to leave. I another confession: I love clothes. I think there have been times I’ve thought about them too much. So as I go to leave and think about what clothes I’m leaving here, there are ones that I want to take, but some of them I sense I should leave here. After all, I do have lots of clothes at home and can pretty easily buy more whenever. I gave some to Laura one night, and her joy and excitement was totally worth all my bummed out-ness about not being able to wear the clothes anymore!
Thank you Jesus for…
o   A few more days to cherish, possibly for the first and last time, in Africa
o   Sacrificial giving
o   That all I have is really God’s and His to use for His purposes
o   That the power has been on during the nights and days for over a week now!
o   The joy of cooking
o   Chances to serve
o   The house to myself, once
o   Early birthday celebrations
o   Funny texts from my Mama
o   New scarves – one can’t have too many!
     Happy Independence Day to all of you in the U.S.! We’re celebrating too, minus the fireworks J See you on the other side, friends. I’m coming home to you!

Friday, June 22, 2012

shorty.

us ladies wearing the aprons avy designed and we had made in iringa. oh, and avy's yummy brownies!

we've had rain several times. it is GLORIOUS!

sophia showing me how to make chapati..